"I AM BUSY AND YOU DON'T BE FUSSY"

                                                        "I  AM BUSY AND YOU DON'T BE FUSSY"

Hai Friends,

After a long time , been a year I suppose, I got something to write. Yes , back with the topic "Stay at home and busy life". This is something I like to tell some of my friends (as it is plural, I couldn't explain each one as I am really busy). Read this educate yourself.  These are the short and sweet words I like to tell some people . It is as follows

"Don't be so ignorant" . "Don't assume". "Don't act smart as if you know everything". "Don't judge".
Finally "Mind your own business".

Seeing these words , don't again judge me that I am angry or irritated. Oh! come on!  don't come with advices "Y yar, what happened ??? cool down".. I know how to keep myself cool and these silly thoughts of some folks won't make me lose my patience. Read this as an information. Don't investigate my mood or the situation.
I have been a working mom as well as a stay at home mom. Though I was working before , I always have that talent to balance my work and life. I always had enough time for my family and friends. Now I stay at home and I enjoy this equally. So here I come with something which made me write this.

Whats app chat

Friend 1 : Hi
(after an hour )
Friend 1: Hi

(As I was busy with something , and the reason I can't carry my phone 24 X7 in my hands )
After an hour , I replied.

Me : Hi, sorry I was busy , couldn't reply , btw how r u ?

After an hour got a reply

Friend1  : Busy ? (laughing smilee). Staying at home right ? but saying busy. Good joke.

Me : (sent a smilee).

I got lot of HI from his number. I decided not to respond.
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After few days , I totally forgot these incidents.

Friend 2 dropped a message
Me: (After an hour ,As I was doing my work out replied "Hey , Hi how r u doing?".
Friend 2 : I am gud. How about you , Busy now a days"
Me : (Smilee) Yes , Busy.
Friend 2 : (Shocking smiley) Staying at home and enjoying life in US . But saying all the time busy ? What will you do yar ?
Me : Sent a smiley
Friend : Tell me what u ll do ?
Me : ..................
Friend 2  : U ther ?
Me :...........
Friend 2: U ther ?
Me : Sorry yar , Catch u later, I am busy. (I just don't want to continue the conversation)

There are still two more who had similar conversation with me wondering about the word "Busy" from a stay at home mom.

I just ask you a question "Why ????"

When I say busy , I really mean it. I am very much aware that how I should spend my time and with whom. I am not going to explain and elaborate about stay at home moms or what they are busy with. There are lots and lots of write ups been shared in social media on this topic and videos been shared to create awareness. If some one says "Busy". Why can't some people say "Okay , Catch u later or  ping me when you are free". Learn that discipline first instead of asking questions which doesn't make any sense. And when I say the word "Busy " and that gives you shock and surprise. I really tell you "Keep that bull shit to yourself, Don't spread it to others".

I say "Busy, Yes I am . I am busy with my own things. I engage myself in different activities and make myself busy and you know what it is not mandatory for me to explain why I am busy or what I am busy with, unless I myself  love to share that with you . When I am minding my own business, Is it too tough for some people to mind theirs'  ?". Some people  who told me that "Staying at home and simply enjoying life". I say "OH dears ! Yes , I do enjoy my life wherever I am, and I really have nothing to say you , Because I am astounded by your stupidity!  Please Grow up and change your attitude".

Written by a cool headed Stay at home mom / Wife.